on birthday presents.

by cloudier

I think giving money to a person for their birthday isn’t tacky/lazy/mean. If you don’t know what they want and don’t have much of an idea what they want, then it’s fine! In fact, I daresay that it’s better than buying them something, since there’s a pretty high chance you’ll get them something they don’t like.

On the other hand, if you have been told over and over by that person that that person wants a certain object, you have no excuse for not buying what they asked for (provided that it’s within your budget).